I'm currently in a 'situationship' with a guy I had a massive crush on a few years ago, who finally reached out to me. When going through who he followed on instagram, I noticed he was following a lot of Andrew Tate pages. When I confronted him about it, and asked if he supported him, he said yes, because Tate was teaching him to be an 'alpha.' This immediately threw me off, but I've known this guy for a few years and I don't want to throw it away over something like this. When I tried to talk more about it, he told me to drop it and not to worry about it, which obviously rang a lot of warning bells in my head. I'm keeping him at arms length for now, but he's moving back to town in a few weeks and I'm concerned for both myself and him, since the area I live in is filled with negative people that would just cement his thinking. Should I just drop him? This opportunity is genuinely a dream come true for me, but he's shown way too many red flags so far that it feels kinda hopeless.

No for real, why?

So now my garage door is open always while I’m home (I WFH). The HOA sent a letter saying someone complained and to close it. I sent an email demanding the rule that stipulates they determine what I do with my doors. Checked the HOA rule book and there’s NOTHING. Bring it on.

Edit: those of you saying to just leave are insane. Yeah, I’ll just go get another house. I’m in Southern California, that doesn’t fucking exist. We got lucky to get THIS place and it was our only option.

My cat have 5 babies on Thursday morning so they’re about 5 days old. She keeps waking me up every hour digging under my blankets putting her newborns in bed with me I keep putting them back in the closet where she’s kept them since day 2 but she keeps bringing them back. I even found one under my dog who sleeps in bed w me also. By 4am this morning I gave up n let her keep them in my bed but I moved them from my feet up to my stomach area where it’s less likely I’ll accidentally hurt them or kick them across the room. She let them stay there n I got about 2 hours of sleep like that. Granted it is the cutest sweetest thing in the world for her to think in bed w me is the safest option, but in reality it’s not. How do I stop her from doing this in the late hours of the night? I’m really scared of squishing or suffocating one