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u/magicfeistybitcoin
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What should society de-normalize?
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u/colormequaint Jan 28 '23
Lack of sleep. It damages your body and mind way more than people think it does
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u/Same-Paramedic8398 Jan 28 '23
I was working at a company that was far away from my home so my schedule used to be: Waking up a 3am, get ready, be at the bus stop at 4am, be at the company at 5:45, work from 6am to 3:00pm, leave and arrive at home at 5:45pm and then connect to my university classes at 6pm to 9pm. Then I went to sleep like at 10 or 11pm so I could have dinner and study or do homework. One day I had a One on One meeting with my boss she asked how I was doing and I told her that I was tired and she said “Well I am tired too but I’m still here” (she lives like 2km away from the company and she only works, there’s literally no comparison at all) it pissed me off the lack of empathy that she had even when she knew about my schedule because I requested to work from home because of university.
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u/CTH2004 Jan 28 '23
it pissed me off the lack of empathy that she had even when she knew about my schedule
welcome to humanity! And people wonder why I don't like other humans...
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u/David_bowman_starman Jan 28 '23
In college it really disappointed me to find that the unstated expectation was we were going to literally put our health at risk getting so little sleep for years at a time. It’s not sustainable and shouldn’t be necessary.
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u/-Deksametazon- Jan 28 '23
I still remember the first lecture of anatomy when I started med school. The professor came in and the first thing she said was "If you didn't start by now, you're way behind schedule." It was literally the second day of med school. Christ...
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u/Issendai Jan 28 '23
The fact that medical training is built around sleeplessness is horrifying. The people injecting you with drugs and slicing open your organs should be the most well-rested profession in the country. Training should be designed around being clear-headed and at the top of your game at all times. Instead, we keep the people whose job is literally life or death in a state of deep fatigue from the first day of training to the day they retire.
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u/Which-Description798 Jan 28 '23
When I was an escort in college, my doctor clients all used a shit load of cocaine. Imagine being operated on knowing how high the doctor was
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u/GrenadesTom Jan 28 '23
In college I was awake for 74 hours straight to finish all my final projects and study for the exams, by the end of that I was hallucinating and in a constant state of panic. Finished my exams, and slept for 12 hours
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u/willvasco Jan 28 '23
What we really need to denormalize is how a lot of people would hear that story and think it was a badge of honor or a funny story, and not a horrifying critique of the expectations students are put under.
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u/Optimal-Success-5253 Jan 28 '23
They flat us told us this. We are currently forming a student iniciative to make it stop but the university just replied with “eat well, sleep well” while still giving out 2 week assignements on 1 week deadline
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u/ProfessorEtc Jan 28 '23
I misread the title as re-normalize and I thought everyone posting was a psycho.
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u/AKushWarrior Jan 28 '23
food wastage, medical bankruptcies, being chronically busy: goals for the 21st century
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u/Nairbfs79 Jan 28 '23
Food waste is a big one. A friend works at Popeye's fried chicken and he said they constantly throw out 100 plus pieces of chicken after closing every night of the week.
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u/Emotional_Relief_19 Jan 28 '23
If this was fb I would sad react. All those poor dead fried chickens who could have found home in someone's tummy
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u/DaydreamsAreNotMeds Jan 28 '23
Celebrity culture. Please for the love of god I sincerely don’t give a single shit about what any out of touch pricks did with their cereal, spouse, ex spouse, or fucking toe nails. Their toxicity is literally poisoning the well of our society.
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u/I_AM_DEATH-INCARNATE Jan 28 '23
First glance, thought it said Celery Culture. Time for bed
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u/First-Ad-9075 Jan 28 '23
If they weren't so out of touch it wouldn't be so annoying. I'm from a part of Australia that everyone forgets about and I know a dozen people who would be rich and powerful enough to be considered celebrities if they were in America. However our isolation has forced them to be more down to earth.
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u/Frooonti Jan 28 '23
Trying to turn every hobby/skill into a business or convincing people to do so.
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u/biscotty22 Jan 28 '23
Omg I work as a barber (have a great career) but I love urban planning as a hobby, so many of my ducking clients try to tell me to get into it as a career and that I could go back to school. Like dude I’m fine, I make way more money and am happy as a barber. Why the fuck would I want to pay to go back to school start at the bottom and make less money in a different field….
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u/other_usernames_gone Jan 28 '23
How do you do urban planning as a hobby?
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u/biscotty22 Jan 28 '23
Mostly just research about it and tell “fucking stroads” like that other guy said
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u/NatasEvoli Jan 28 '23
It's easy. You read about trains and say FUCKING STROADS every time you pass a mcdonalds.
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u/guaromiami Jan 28 '23
Have you considered communicating your urban planning ideas to community leaders? I'm sure you probably think it would be nice to see some of your ideas being brought to life, even if you're not getting compensated for it. Plus, you'll be helping your town take on a character that aligns more with your own vision.
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u/ScrimpleShrimp Jan 28 '23
Haha when I was a barber I had a client who was on the city council and he said he always wants to hear ideas from citizens so I just bombarded him with ideas about creating a cute little downtown main street in a specific rundown section of town. None of it happened obviously, but it was fun going back and forth with him about how it would look and stuff.
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u/clowneryin2020 Jan 28 '23
The way the default compliments are “you could sell these” “you should put up a YouTube channel it’d get lots of views”…
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u/Solivagant0 Jan 28 '23
I paint and I've heard I'm pretty good at it. People act like I should want to become a full time artist, but I like doing it as a hobby and I feel like a stable 9-5 job would work much better for me
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Jan 28 '23
Not visually supporting a movement on the internet means you're against it for some reason.
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u/dannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnex Jan 28 '23 edited Feb 06 '23
oh my gosh this.
there was an author that I love who didn't immediately post something when all the george floyd stuff was going on, and people were fucking getting pissed at him for 'stayling silent'
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he's not even an influencer
he writes fucking fantasy books holy shit
nobody is obligated to say anything about anything ever. just because you share your every thought on the internet doesn't mean other people have to.
he did eventually post something, but even then these people were still saying stupid things like 'im glad he finally corrected his mistakes. still not sure if ill be able to support him anymore'. so fucking self-righteous. as if they were doing anything meaningful themselves.
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u/Haoleguacamole Jan 28 '23
Something like this happened in my country, too. A woman won a TV baking competition and went on to open a webshop and instagram, where she shared recipes and some pictures of herself.
Then a list was published; "famous people who haven't taken a stance on the Israel-Palestine conflict" or something like that. She got people calling her and threatening her life, so much hate, and her sales went down a lot.
All of this for saying she wanted to keep her instagram account focused on cakes and shit, not political issues or war etc.. .
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u/PocketPlays Jan 28 '23
That's fucking psychotic. Those people need to do an internet detox.
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u/magicfeistybitcoin Jan 28 '23
Related: thinking that RTs = activism.
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u/Common-Wish-2227 Jan 28 '23
"If you're not with me, you're against me" - battle cry of the most demented fanatics everywhere
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u/mechapoitier Jan 28 '23
Yeah Reddit’s style of discussion is if you don’t make absolutely clear you’re in favor of (insert popular thing) they’ll downvote you just to be safe.
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u/UTMachine Jan 28 '23
I don't write my pronouns in my email signature. There are people who think that makes me homophobic by default.
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u/iostream64 Jan 28 '23
From my understanding even the LGBT activists have mixed feelings. Some say it's good because it normalized asking first, others say it could out people before they're ready.
It just comes across as shallow corporate pandering.
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u/Squigglepig52 Jan 28 '23
Yeah, there will never be a time where I announce my pronouns. IF you get it wrong, and it somehow matters, I'll tell you.
I mean, feel free to tell me yours if you need to, but mine are a non-issue.
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u/ScalySquid Jan 28 '23
Expecting you to be constantly connected to your phone. I hate all the implicit social rules about text messaging and getting back to people and shit.
Oh no, your feelings got hurt because I didn’t respond in 2 minutes to your meme? I’m soooo sorry it’s not like I wasn’t, I don’t know, busy or something?
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u/griffinicky Jan 28 '23
I think many people are getting better at this. Like sure, I have my phone on me - I might even be using it at the moment you call/message - but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm available, willing, and/or able to respond right now.
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u/sohcgt96 Jan 28 '23
In all fairness, you can set expectations with that. People know I respond to shit when I get around it. Granted, it may be harder to establish this when you're younger and its a bigger part of your life.
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u/condensedhomo Jan 28 '23
I just went through this with my 11 yo niece a couple weeks ago. We were doing Christmas and she would not get off her phone which was charging in the other room. I told her to tell them all you're with family and you'll get back to them when you can. And she argued that it's what they expected, they'll think she's being rude otherwise. And I'm like???? Even if you explain why???? You have some shit friends then girl wtf
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u/Naive_Illustrator Jan 28 '23
Food wastage. Lots of stores and restaurants throwout substandard food to maintain a level of quality that makes customers trust them, but it leads to enormous waste.
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u/Narrow_Stock_834 Jan 28 '23
I heard that Panera gives their food away to the homeless. I don’t have receipts and I don’t like their food, but I wish more establishments would follow suit.
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u/SleepCinema Jan 28 '23
They do. Bakery items get boxed for the local partnering food bank/shelter at the end of the day. However, it’s totally up to the food bank/shelter if they wanna come pick it up. If they don’t come to get it the following day, it’s gotta be tossed.
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u/musichen Jan 28 '23
Was also going to post this. I worked at Panera ages ago and most nights someone came and picked up all of our leftover bakery items to take to food pantries/homeless shelters.
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u/magicfeistybitcoin Jan 28 '23
I think it's evil for large stores to lock their dumpsters to deter dumpster-diving when thousands of pounds of healthy, bagged food are tossed out daily.
When I was a baker at Tim Hortons, the store's policy was to toss out anything older than three hours. I wanted to save it for people in need, but the horizontal 15' walk from store to dumpster was supervised by camera. I'm not making that up.
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u/Arkista_Tev Jan 28 '23 edited Jan 28 '23
One reason is they don't want a small crowd of the homeless standing around behind their store every day, because that deters customers. And whether that's evil or not, you can't just shrug and go 'I don't care' because that's not realistic.
There's liability issues too, because now you have to make sure that your 'extra food' is still being handled in a sanitary manner in accordance with food safety laws, if you're intending for it to be eaten and not thrown out. And if you're just throwing it in a dumpster but not locking it, now you're arguably liable if someone eats it and gets sick. Would you be necessarily? Maybe! And a company doesn't want to eff around and find out.
Not saying we couldn't do things a lot better but there's a ton of reasons why restaurants, grocery stores, etc don't just donate food or hand it out.
Like yes I'd rather us have no food waste but we've got to change a whole lot before we even start looking at individual stores and calling them evil for literally doing what they're legally required to do.
Yes it's totally possible for a store to donate its food, but here's the thing.
It depends on your area!
A lot of shelters WILL NOT ACCEPT 'WASTE FOOD'. Covid regulations clamped down on things even more.
I used to be homeless.
I've since done a lot of work renovating homeless shelters (am an electrician, not as a charity, just happen to have been around quite a few.) Lived in poverty for years, myself.
The world of the homeless or otherwise in-need is not as simple as you might think.
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u/FunkyKong147 Jan 28 '23
We used to just give people free boxes of whatever donuts were left when I would close at Timmy's
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u/CaptainPrower Jan 28 '23
Working yourself half to death and retiring poorer than when you started working.
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u/LostIn_TheWorld Jan 28 '23
$8 coffee
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u/Inevitable-Sock8741 Jan 28 '23
Or pressuring people to get into a relationship so they can “start a family”. My ass is poor as hell I got no money or time for a relationship.
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u/magicfeistybitcoin Jan 28 '23
I'll add another wrong reason: hoping for your kid to be your sole source of purpose in life. No kid deserves that baggage.
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u/tormentrock Jan 28 '23
Or having that kid be the thing that saves your marriage. That’s just a recipe for a traumatized kid.
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u/boogermeboogeru Jan 28 '23
My ex wanted to have a kid. When I asked why and what he pictured he said “a son old enough to come to work with me and help out around the house”
One- a daughter didn’t count- and two- apparently he expected me to birth a 12 year old indentured servant.
Talk about backwards ideas.
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u/AbyssalRedemption Jan 28 '23
Yo fr, this just perpetuates a toxic generational cycle. People need to find meaning elsewhere. Not saying kids can’t be important to you, but it’s not healthy to solely live through them, you need to develop your own life.
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u/KPal93 Jan 28 '23
This 🙌. My husbands family literally SHUNS us at family events, will barely talk to us bc we have chosen not to have children on top of me being likely physically unable to. That’s all we heard from them for years after getting married. When they brought the Bible into it the 5 billionth time, my husband finally put his foot down, and they also found out I have PCOS. Now they just don’t talk to us.
I don’t understand why some ppl are so concerned with what’s going on in someone else’s womb. They’re a big part of the reason I don’t want kids. You think I want them to have to put up with those ass hats?
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u/tigran_i Jan 28 '23
I live in a very "traditionally conservative" country. Army service is mandatory and once you hit 18 you get enlisted. After you come back the first question relatives ask is - when are you getting married. Once you get married they be like - when are you having kids. Once you have a kid, they start asking for the second one but of the other gender... at least after 2nd child they all collectively fuck off.
For girls it's worse - if you too are traditional and above 25, you get labeled as "stayed at home" - a passive aggressive term meaning "there is something wrong with YOU, men don't want you". And if you are married, regardless if you're traditional or not, every single relative of yours and your husbands would be nearly demanding you have kids.
P.S. it is not happening in every case, but the majority is like that.
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u/TWSREDDIT Jan 28 '23
Retail customer is entitled to always being right.
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u/tenehemia Jan 28 '23
Extend this to restaurants, please.
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u/Matt0715 Jan 28 '23
My restaurant has a "respectful guest policy" where managers are empowered to remove guests who are rude or agurmentative with staff. It's nice
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u/SenseSouthern6912 Jan 28 '23
In general the "customer is always right" mentality has backfired, now customers just act like entitled brats to get free stuff and raise the price for everyone else
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u/SoundOfDrums Jan 28 '23
It's a full misinterpretation as well. Originally it meant "the customer is right about what they need." Meaning, if someone comes in to buy red shoes, you don't try to talk them into buying blue ones. Sell them what they want.
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I worked retail. I only heard the right thing in movies. Customers were pain in the ass, and we got I trouble if didn't handle them.
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u/PoopComesOutOfMyButt Jan 28 '23
I hope whoever came up with that slogan is burning in hell, just having Jackfruits rammed into their urethra all day every day for all eternity.
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u/Rocketknightgeek Jan 28 '23
The original version is "in matters of taste, the customer is always right."
The bastardised imbecile version somehow stuck.
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u/Nickjam3s93 Jan 28 '23
Giving a 5 year old a smart phone to keep them occupied
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u/FBI_Open_Up_Now Jan 28 '23
I’m not opposed to introducing tech to young children though. My friend and I built a computer with my god son when he was 5. He is 12 now and has built all kinds of cool things and we’ve got him some books on coding in different languages as well. He has done some cool things and I really look forward to when he is an adult. I truly believe that introducing him to tech at a young age was good for him. I think he is going to go far in life.
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u/hill-biscuit Jan 28 '23
The specific things you introduce them to is the critical point there, though. It's not enough to give them a phone and that's tech. You need to be doing something like that where it's building skills
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u/AbyssalRedemption Jan 28 '23
Oh for sure, in this world I think you’re doing a huge disservice to your kids if you don’t teach them basic tech skills. But there’s a huge difference between walking your 8 year son through coding his first Hello World program in Python, and giving your 4 year old an IPad set to YouTube Kids for 5 hours because it keeps them quiet so you don’t have to pay attention to them.
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I'm glad that I limit screen time and no "personal" device, my 5 year old is developing better than peers with unlimited screen time in communication and emotional expression.
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u/First-Ad-9075 Jan 28 '23
Giving so much of a f*** about celebrities. From a place in the world that is a first world country but lacks celebrities, I couldn't give a shit. Yet everyone seems to care as if they are family. They don't care about you!
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u/axw3555 Jan 28 '23
People really do have weird views on this.
Yesterday for some reason my boss was telling us “no wife, no life”. One of my colleagues asked if he meant happy wife happy life and he said no. And then went further to say that people who stay single are somehow uncomfortable with themselves.
It was clearly directed at me, as I’m the only one in the office who isn’t married. But I’m also not really interested in that kind of relationship. And I’m comfortable with who I am, enough to be single unless I meet someone very special. If I don’t, I’m fine with that.
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u/Musicuber24 Jan 28 '23
This is why I’m scared of becoming an adult. All I want are friends, family, hobbies, and to be left alone, but I feel like I would never have more friends if everyone approaches me only for a date. I have seen too many romantic relationships go wrong for many reasons, and it just seems like to me, I would be much happier like I am now being single than to deal with all of the trauma of dating.
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u/jert3 Jan 28 '23
Be careful not to fall into a hole well before a hole even appears. Dating shouldnt feel traumatic. Nothing wrong with being single of course.
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u/Cheap-Hospital-7281 Jan 28 '23
Having children just because you can. Not everyone is a suitable parent. Some people shouldn't have children imo
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u/OhHiGCHQ Jan 28 '23
On top of this, pressuring other people to have children when they aren't ready/not willing. Parents, family, even complete fucking strangers will berrate you (especially women) for not having children.
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u/xFloppyDisx Jan 28 '23
And even worse, trying to pressure your children into getting married to someone they approve of when they're older.
Source: My parents tell me, "you're never going to leave our house until you marry a big, Muslim, dominant man that we approve of". Wait till I get a girlfriend and move out, lmao.
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u/boogermeboogeru Jan 28 '23
And for those types it’s never one and done. I got grief from EVERYONE when I couldn’t have a second child because “it doesn’t count if you only have one “ and “it’s selfish not to give your kid a sibling” and I physically couldn’t do it again.
Honestly even if I could have I don’t think I would have wanted to. Kids are hard and expensive AF. I’m very happy doing one and done.
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u/catarinavanilla Jan 28 '23
I’m an only child and it feels like I hear new ways to denigrate only-children every other week. First I’m spoiled, then I’m fundamentally unsocialized, now I’m illegitimate. Lol they think we’re aliens
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u/griffinicky Jan 28 '23
Jfc that's awful. I'd absolutely LOVE to have a (single) kid, and I can't imagine being told I'm awful for just having one. Sadly, I'm gay and we're very likely too broke to adopt...
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u/KPal93 Jan 28 '23
My husband and I went to a family members event and a few of her relatives from her husbands side were there. Within 15 minutes of arriving an old man I had never met before was sitting beside my husband asking if we had children and telling him we should, and some new parents at the event told us we needed to have one bc we “needed to know what tired felt like”. Like, tf??
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u/furlaughs24 Jan 28 '23
I always thought this was strange and potentially hurtful also. People will comment about how you should have kids and have no idea if you are dealing with fertility issues and/or suffered losses. People making comments like "when are you finally going to start a family???" Can really hurt.
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u/Pterodactyl_Souffle Jan 28 '23
I have friends who've literally ruined their lives this way.
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u/BTGiraffe Jan 28 '23
See, as a young adult, I idolise the idea of having my own family, and would love to have the opportunity to be a father. However, be that as it may, I have also believed in the whole "Family isn't just blood, but it's what you make it" view. If I found myself with someone who doesn't want children, even though I may, I wouldn't consider it a deal breaker. I'm fortunate to be an uncle to quite a few nieces and nephews, and I take my time to spend what I can timewise with them. I teach them things, help them understand emotions, and I play and sing with them. Making the next generation isn't mandatory, just be there for them.
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u/derkrieger Jan 28 '23
And thats huge, both for the parents to have other good role models and people who can help but for the kids to again have good role models and other interesting people that arent just mom and dad that can help them learn and become a better version of themselves. If you want to be the cool Uncle, Aunt, Cousin, Weird person in the neighborhood that everyone knows will have the really good fireworks on holidays, whatever you wanna be then cool be it. The saying it takes a village to raise a child sure feels accurate sometimes.
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u/SaltanButterscotch Jan 28 '23
Binge drinking. Driving while inebriated or sleep-deprived.
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u/tormentrock Jan 28 '23
Is drunk driving really normalized in society?
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u/No_Manufacturer5641 Jan 28 '23
Yes, but not the way you're imagining it. Most people way over estimate what drunk driving is. If you went to a party and had a couple beers and drive there's a decent chance you're driving drunk. If you're feeling an effect of alcohol you're driving drunk.
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u/doyathinkasaurus Jan 28 '23
In the UK the term used is drink-driving rather than drunk-driving for that very reason.
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u/square_tomatoes Jan 28 '23
Yes. I didn’t think it was, I thought it was just a thing someone does when they’ve hit rock bottom. But then I became a firefighter and realized just how common it actually is.
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u/Amazing-Ad288 Jan 28 '23 edited Jan 28 '23
Depends on the region and local culture I guess? Pretty normalized in middle America and Great Lakes region from what I’ve seen in media. Not sure about Canada or Uk/Australia but I’d have to assume the same
Edit to add: there will always be a subset of society that will risk-take and continue to DD if they never suffer adverse consequences of their actions
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u/whatever32657 Jan 28 '23
it used to be WAY more normalized back in the 70s-80s. everybody did it and i never knew a single person to be charged for it
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u/One_Vacation_1897 Jan 28 '23
People justifying being a bully because they’re doing it ‘for the right reasons’.
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u/nondescriptapocrypha Jan 28 '23
So very much agreed. All the bandwagon cyber-bullying is honestly just super sad to see.
I feel like our responses to things can be too black and white. Each comment or action is immediately judged by public consensus as either "acceptable" or "unacceptable." And anything deemed unacceptable runs the risk of reaching the exact same public shaming consequence, regardless of how severe the transgression - or whether the transgressor is genuinely a "bad" person, or instead maybe just a little uneducated.
If your relatively minor mistake is unlucky enough to "go viral," it now results in a public shaming on an unimaginable scale. We read headlines, not details. We don't consider the human behind these complete strangers (and the potential experiences or trauma that formed them). We just react to the 15-second glimpse into their life, and decide to permanently condemn them for it.
I wish we'd normalize being more empathetic towards each other, and try to first assume that people don't have bad intentions. After all, not everyone has the same knowledge or understanding, and studies have shown that shame isn't necessarily the most effective way of changing someone's thoughts or behaviors.
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u/Gringo_Baggins Jan 28 '23
Right. Like when people dunk on some new asshole celebrity by... Insulting their appearance 🤷🏼
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u/Velocityraptor28 Jan 28 '23
yeah if you're gonna insult them, do it by calling them out on their BS, not hark on them for entirely benign and unrelated things
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u/an_ostrich_allegedly Jan 28 '23
Filters on photos
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u/strwbrryblondeonline Jan 28 '23
This !! I can’t imagine being middle school aged right now. It has to be messing with young peoples’ minds so badly.
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u/yuri_yk Jan 28 '23
Protecting Young offenders for serious violent crimes. Like in Canada, a group of 13-16 year olds got together to beat a homeless man to death last month. 3 of them are out on bail.
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u/Package_Sea Jan 28 '23
I agree! Four people gangraped and brutally murdered a young girl in India. 3 got hanged while the 16 year old got only juvenile detention although he seemed to have been more ruthless than others with the use of a rod that ended up pulling out the girls intestines.
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u/dance_fev Jan 28 '23 edited Jan 28 '23
Bragging about or encouraging working 40+ hrs a week.
edit- I meant working OT but in terms of “de-normalize” I’d also include the 40hr work week. Some one just came up with 40-50 hrs and it’s ridiculous. It’s a time suck to be stuck at work for clock filling sake when you’ve already completed a reasonable amount of work.
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u/magicfeistybitcoin Jan 28 '23
Yeah, hustle culture is some bullshit
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u/Lemur-Tacos-768 Jan 28 '23
And counter-productive. I throw my team out the door at 5. Like a bouncer if they won’t go willingly.
Numbers came out today. 15% above the next highest team. “How do you do that?! They’re all on vacation all the time!” “Exactly.”
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u/HyperSpaceSurfer Jan 28 '23
Wait, you're more productive when you're not spacing out 25% of the time you're at work? Wow, who'd've thunk.
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u/SpergSkipper Jan 28 '23
"LoL I rEmEmBeR mY fIrSt PaRt TiMe JoB"
-some asshole on facebook wearing sunglasses with a goatee in a truck
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u/SuvenPan Jan 28 '23
Not taking men who are domestic violence victims seriously.
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u/magicfeistybitcoin Jan 28 '23
THANK YOU for mentioning this. Likewise, men who are victims of rape.
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u/ColoursRock Jan 28 '23
Child beauty pageants.
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u/magicfeistybitcoin Jan 28 '23
Someone else mentioned this. I agree that they're messed up.
Happy cake day!
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u/Leveolizan Jan 28 '23
Lootbox system or those shitty subscriptions. If you paid for a product you own it period.
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u/magicfeistybitcoin Jan 28 '23
I'm still annoyed that Photoshop is now a subscription service. I refuse to sign up.
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u/Leveolizan Jan 28 '23
I just hope this shitty trend will die as it will seep through everything over time. Imagine a future you have to pay for your smartphone, fridge or your clothes monthly.
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u/Emilayday Jan 28 '23
Waking up early being a trait of an industrious person. We haven't needed to follow the agricultural pattern of the sun in like a hundred years, people who have later circadian rhythms have value and work hard too.
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u/magicfeistybitcoin Jan 28 '23
THANK YOU. I have DSPS/DSPD. It's weird that people still actually believe this myth.
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u/joseph-barker Jan 28 '23
Sexualizing kids, "Oh the boys will be all over her when she's older".
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u/Firefly613 Jan 28 '23
There are many... but recently Gender Reveal parties are all the rage (or any other made up excuse for social media content) and they are just stupid
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u/angryscientistjunior Jan 28 '23
Incivility and intolerance of people with different views and from different walks of life. Media sensationalizing everything just to make a buck regardless of the damage they do to society. Deforestation and destruction of wildlife habitat for profit. Government corrupted by lobbying, crony capitalism, cutting deals. The general population being farmed by corporations, corporate ownership of news media, corporate monopolies, consumerism, celebrating money over substance. The military industrial complex.
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u/invisiblemorgan Jan 28 '23
Similarly- that kids need to listen to all adults because they all know best
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u/ZipBit Jan 27 '23
Convenience. People need to learn to be ok with being inconvenienced every now and then.
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u/HarrySatchel Jan 28 '23
Making comments to little kids about how much they're gonna fuck when they're older.
like "wow, look at the little lady killer. He's gonna have to fight off the girls when he gets older" & "he's so handsome. He'll be such a player"
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u/Pippy_Squirrel Jan 28 '23
Yes! I find this very strange. I also hate when I hear someone asking a young child if another young child is their boyfriend or girlfriend. (Have a friend who is always asking her 5 yo son if various girls in his kindergarten class are his girlfriends). Just let a kid be a kid!
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u/AdLess7107 Jan 28 '23
Having children as a default. The fact it's only considered a family if it includes children.
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u/DandyDonut Jan 28 '23
Tipping in the U.S.
Just pay adequate wages to the service workers like most other damn countries.
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u/Rambo7112 Jan 28 '23
I'm seeing many places ask for tips starting at 20% when they have you pick up and bus your own dishes.
What am I even tipping for at that point?
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ghosting someone instead of having an uncomfortable conversation
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u/rargafad Jan 28 '23 edited Jan 28 '23
Sexuilizing minors.
just think of all the insanely popular shows that contain sex scenes with characters who are minors.
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u/adubsi Jan 28 '23
might be a hot take but the “any size is healthy” crowd. I remember in the early 2010s Michelle Obama did a war on obesity campaign and for some reason it just disappeared.
Feels like people just gave up and are just normalizing the problem rather than addressing it
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u/Spirited-Season5700 Jan 28 '23
That's because a war on obesity means addressing all the junk they sell us.
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u/BxGyrl416 Jan 28 '23
The US has to be the only place in the world where it’s standard and not the exception to have food-like products. It says a lot when they have to specify that something actually contains “real fruit” or “real chocolate” or “real juice.”
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u/bruno_do Jan 28 '23
Definitely true, both sides of unhealthy bodies are dangerous, I have known people who died due to obesity, and seen people suffer from malnutrition
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u/jedo89 Jan 28 '23
It’s good manners to not make fun of or degrade fat people but society flipped it into this weird form of praising them
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u/Barnaby_Cuckoldsniff Jan 28 '23
Acting like a fucking bully because you don't like something someone else said on line.
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u/katesaysthis Jan 28 '23
American society? No paid parental leave or time off for birth recovery and bonding
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u/theonlyjaguarsfan Jan 28 '23
Filming at concerts. You’re seeing a musician live. Be in the moment and enjoy yourself instead of filming every single song for 5 seconds of attention on social media.
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u/Ronotimy Jan 28 '23
Tipping. It used to be optional and depending on quality of service. Now it seems mandatory and on top of tax.
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u/MissAnnTropez Jan 28 '23
Having kids being the default, so expected, also demanded. Fuck off with that ‘tude. And it creates sooooo many problems in the world. Ugh.
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u/MissingLesbianSpaces Jan 28 '23
Calling pedophiles MAPs (minor-attracted people). Pedophilia should NEVER be normalized.
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u/sohcgt96 Jan 28 '23
FWIW I don't think anybody BUT pedos uses that term. They're trying to re-brand themselves. Nobody is buying into that bullshit and legitimizing it though, any appearance of it being a legitimate term is probably astro-turfing.
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u/0insane_problems0 Jan 28 '23
Feeling like one have to know what they want to do with life at like age 16-20. I feel like it’s very stressful and unrealistic.
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u/No-One753 Jan 28 '23
Recording innocent strangers in public without their permission
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u/IHateMath14 Jan 28 '23
Minimum wage jobs. It’s horrible for people to suffer through all that hard work only go barely be able to feed themselves ☹️
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u/darknico-3d Jan 28 '23
Making your triggers and emotional trauma everyone’s problem
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u/A-Dawg11 Jan 28 '23
Aggressive political stances and interactions.
I am allowed to agree with some of what you say and still disagree with most. That doesn't make me inconsistent or a hypocrite. Also, not every political topic should be treated like it's life and death.
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u/Waschbar-krahe Jan 27 '23
Doing drugs instead of going to therapy. (I count weed, alcohol and nicotine in this)
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u/magicfeistybitcoin Jan 27 '23 edited Jan 28 '23
I wish therapy were affordable for most people. $200 a session is just nuts. I searched religiously for a therapist in my province who specialises in trauma and takes OHIP (our provincial healthcare plan). I didn't find a single one.
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u/stressedleopard Jan 28 '23
This comment needs to be normalized. People act like therapy is something abundant low cost. The vast vast majority of humans can't afford therapy. Yet on every single reddit post the answer is always "just go to therapy". The hivemind is out of touch.
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u/amethyzt_ Jan 28 '23
Always needing to be busy with something. Sometimes you just wanna do you and relax